>>>interesting to me that most people on this site are male. none of the males i know are any good at trading. <<<
Princesa,
Actually, you are a rarity. Tell your husband, he is lucky you have an interest in investing. Very few women trade and the ones that do are very impulsive. I had a female friend who I was mentoring on trading but, she was too impulsive. Would suddenly trade huge positions without good reason. She blew out close to $300,000.If she listened to me and put the bulk of her funds in the bank, she would have more money now and be a better trader. On a couple of occasions, I gave her my options picks, she was able to take advantage only 3 times. She missed the last one I gave her on XTO EH (XTO) which I bought at $3.60 and sold for $7.40. In between, she bungled some more trades which lost her money. Have a couple of female friends in the office who are also impulsive----they would hang on to their losing positions (big losers) and would dump the ETFs I gave them when the declined a little bit. Then, the ETFs go up and they regret what they did!!! Go figure.
Oh, I am a guy by the way. Not a very good trader yet, but working hard at it!!!