Yes imo the BS is totally skewed toward sellers because they price options based on the potential maximum move and afaik price isn't even weighted to probabilities. I believe tasty trade did an episode on this phenomenon. You can see it if you look at your break evens and expected moves...it basically rarely covers your strike plus premium...ie maximum pain concept. I do sell (cash settled) options or only buy short term. I also think that sellers should be choosing whether or not to exercise the contract or have it cash settled...not the buyers. If you have risk of early assignment that you can't cover then you are at a HUGE disadvantage. I rarely see any option 12 delta or greater not get touched by price in the last week of expiry...even though the majority will expire worthless...and by worthless I mean that even if itm you don't cover your premium. I'm sure there is an algorithm that figures all this stuff out, or this is simply the footprints of market makers shaving profits from a skew in parity on their box positions. I'm not the one to ask about the innerworkings...I'm just observing.
Here is an example: If you buy IWM 176 Jun.21 call @ $15.19. The ATR (based on BS) is +-28.32. but looking at the actual chart you'd be lucky to break 188 by expiry and even if you did, you'd still lose -$3600 on the trade. That is bs. AND that is with no major draw downs along the way...if that happens the IV will tank and you're out. Even if it recovers its like going on a second date and I doubt the IV will return to the same level of excitement again even at same price.