"POKER RULE#34: Detach yourself emotionally from the game."
"Please don't think... that I am showing off when I say that I know the secret of how not to lose but win. I really do know the secret; it is terribly silly and simple and consists of keeping one's head the whole time, whatever the state of the game, and not getting excited. That is all, and it makes losing simply impossible... But that is not the point: the point is whether, having grasped the secret, a man knows how to make use of it and is fit to do so. A man can be as wise as Solomon and have an iron character and still be carried away." - Fyodor Dostoyevsky
There is quite a bit in the book for this rule. I am not going to pick it out. You might want to refer back to the book.
I think we are running a full circle back to this rule. All these rules are great but how can I internalize them?
It can be tough to call upon the rules in the heat of battle. I tried self-hypnosis and still use it but I think it is more helpful in increasing confidence etc. I need something to generate greater awareness overall on the concious level to facilitate "good" trading. I put together a little meditation program for myself. Please send me the critque on how to make it better:
The format of the following meditation is following the traditional practice of the "four thoughts turning the mind from samsara." You can find a lucid explainations of the FORMAT in Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche's book "GATES TO BUDDHIST PRACTICE" (He passed away).
The simplified format is:
First, I pray to Buddha, and my teachers for blessing and wisdom. If you are a Christian, you can pray to Jesus. I think prayer is powerful to get my head out of the box (ordinary life). If you are not religious, you can ask your inner wisdom for guidance... Basically begging... Please help me out!!!
1) Relax yourself in meditation. Sit back straight, relax the four limbs, be aware, gaze your eyes softly and steadily forward at an imaginary point two palm length away. You can put your hands on the knee. (3-5 min)
2) Reflect on the points. I have three points I want to internalize. You pick your three points and I will pick mine. I write out my script on a piece of paper for all logics for each points. Sit quietly and read your script. Reflect everything in details. Dissect the details and go even deeper in your head. Magnify every fiber of the logics that lead to the points. Spend as much time as you want and make sure you turned everything inside out.
3) Coming to a conclusion. I end each point with a self-affirmation that I will change my behavior to accomodate the points. Go to step 4 immediately.
4) Rest in the nature. Let go of all concepts like you had a long day, took a hot shower and sit back on a sofa. As soon as you become aware that thoughts and conceptions arise back again from the "gap" (it could be as short as a second or two). Go on to reflect on the next point (repeat step 3 and 4 for each point).
Finally I allocate the last portion for introspection by asking myself (ego) if I have any concern and objection in implementing those points. Do I see the logics of each point? Ask a lot of why? Ask yourself hard questions. You might not get any answer but keep pounding out questions and give your ego a chance to speak.
Then I make the resolutions in my head that I will do my absolute best to implement the points.
At the end of any practice, one would dedicate the merits of one's good intention and meditation practice to the liberation from all suffering for all beings.