Dependency is the issue to be solved... Not only in trading but in all aspects that relate to your core need for independence... Guru's provide an uncomfortably comfortable mirror into your own insecurities to accomodate them vs. courage to do without 1, 2, or your mother's rejection and your father's disapproval of your trading success. So when you drive up to the old house you lived in, in your new Humvee, they ask, "how come you're wearing that ugly sweater?" When your need for acknowledgement is accepted as loss from them, your ability to stand on your own two feet and discover your process of realization that 'My success threatens them, and it's their problem, not mine' gurus that are actually a substitute for them get flushed down the drain with the rest of the shit! ... All that said, I am always open to quality input that takes my trading to another level from care with control for power broken gurus. ( that demand independence of them)