Quote from giles117:
Desire trumps discipline if you believe in execution. I went to college to make my FAMILY happy. I left because I wasnt happy. I had a lousy 3.5 because I was so unhappy.
My desire was for what I do today. Music and trading.
2 years after I walked away from college I started trading. I paid my way through college with my Music career.
Dont think it's all about Discipline. DESIRE is a major issue. SOme people do what they do because of others expectations and not their own personal desire.
Most people dont figure out WHO they are until they are 27 or 28. MOST, not ALL!!!!!
Oddly enough I knew what I wanted to do when I was a teenager, but I allowed my Pastor and my Parents to convince me that I was TOO SMART to do what I wanted to do and that I should get a degree. I bought into that BS till I realized I was unhappy chasing their opinions for me.
Giles,
You are correct. Many people are so wrapped up and brainwashed by everything they have no idea what that statement means. They can't possibly understand the concept of being UNHAPPY in going to college or the desire to strike out on your own.
They have been bagged and tagged by society.
You mention music being a passion....I'd say it's the same artistic mindset that makes you a good musician that makes you want to be your own person no matter what the risk.
I've always been artistic as well in conventional art and music, and I have noticed other artistic people that tend to have the same mentality.
Not trying to sound crazy or anything, but I'd go out on a limb and say Icarus has some experience in some form of art as well that he excels at.
Willing to put money on it.
Some people are simply unable to understand what makes someone want to be their own person no matter what it takes.
I remember something from an Alice In Chains song, Nutshell...if I can't be my own I'd feel better dead.
Not trying to be dramatic, but it's true. It is a mindset that some of us have.
The day I got my DD214 from the military I knew I wasn't cut out to work for civilians for one day longer than was necessary to get my own show on the road.