Quote from joeyata1:
jmowery why would anyone be jeoulous? if you make 10 killiona year would go is that for me? after 15 years i take everything i hear with a grain of salt and do the best i can. THE ENEMY IN THIS GAME IS NOT THE OTHER TRADER DOING BETTER OR WORSE THAN YOU ITS YOURSELF. YOU MSUT CONQUER YOUR FEARS AND FLAWS TO SUCEED IN TRADING. BE EMOTIONLESS AND LIKE AN ASSASAIN WETHER YOU'RE UP OR DOWN 5K
I try.... i seriously don't care about the money though. Right now, I'm so young. I just want to trade, and not worry about money.
As long as I don't become in a situation where I have to "Trade or Die" type thing, I'll just keep trading with that "I don't care attitude", and it seems to work out.
Because when I first started, I used to always wait, or question trades, miss out on the good ones, and then doubt the others and usually take those.
I just read a few books on how to fix this, and I just said screw it. First instinct.......... first thought. Execute it, and let it work itself.
As in the nike crap: JUST DO IT!
But seriously, I have an amazing thing with catching reverses in the market.
I have been studying reversals on the charts every night, maybe do it for 2 hours a night, and it has paid off. I think this is the reason why I'm drawn to more active trading so I can capitalize on the trades in the middle of the bigger picture.
I would like to have 2 accounts, one for trading more actively, and another for a less active trading role, possibly holding positions overnight as well.
I just have to wait and see.
And as to being jealous. I am not saying you specifically.
But it is amazing how many people are jealous of others. It isn't even bad in here compared to other traders in other forums, or other threads on here. I just take notice in it a lot and just wonder what makes someone be jealous of another.
I just don't like jealousy, I think it is another reason trading appeals to me. It doesn't matter what someone else does. I can do it better! At least it is possible. So as long as I can possibly do it better, there is no worry of being jealous of something you can't have, because with hard work, you can have whatever you want.
Again, I just want to make enough money to keep me trading as long as possible. If something happens, I'll have to get a job. I said this before. By May - June of next year, if I am still here, you will know I will be here for awhile.
If not, then I obviously didn't perform well, didn't perform well enough that I needed to, or just sucked, and in which case I take what everyone has said here and use it to better myself.
But majority of it just makes me work harder, so that is why, even though I get ticked, it just makes the determination to work more.
So it is all good either way.
And again, I love the challenge, because the only thing I'm competing against is myself. If I don't get emotional, I make money, and if I'm right, I reap the rewards, if not, then I don't win.
Simple as that.