Quote from michaelscott:
Its not that funny if you know NYC. When you go into the city for the weekend, you go to drink. Everyone drinks in NYC.
If you get caught drunk driving, then they take your car away and it becomes the property of the city. You never see your car ever again no matter how much money you owe on it. On top of that there are heavy fines and jail time.
So you either have four choices. Dont drink, dont go to manhattan, sleep in your car or stay over at someone's apartment on the couch. Outside of Manhattan there is no place to go besides cheesy Hoboken and a few other horrible places.
If you have an apartment in the city, then you are used to people staying over each weekend and crashing on the couch. Its common routine. No one really minds.
I have partied in the city for over ten years and its not uncommon for me to land up on the couch of someone's apartment that I dont know. Sometimes you will go out and people will invite you back to their apartment for a party they are having.
Its a fun place. Lots of culture and community. Everyone sticks together. Not like California where everyone backstabs you and treats you like a stranger.
Wow you don't say! You have opened my eyes.
I am completely clueless about any of these issues and must have totally missed them in the last 7 years I have been living in Manhattan. I appreciate your Bridge & Tunnel input, which seems to come off as self promoting & boasting about your whacky Manhattan adventures filled with fun nights spent on couches of random mens' apartments.
Sadly, I must inform you that you, sir, need some help in the thinking department.
See, the smarter people who come into Manhattan to party do make a serious attempt to use public transportation cause depending on the designated driver is a b*tch. So is trying to find your car late at night, or paying for all night parking or finding out that your car has been towed. Most do avoid the fun times of drunk driving, without the need of learning these lessons the hard way unlike you.
Sleeping on someone's couch is not a comfortable proposition, apartment space is somewhat limited in Manhattan and a nice sleeping couch is pretty low on the priority list. Rather have you take a cab, it's really not that expensive and is way worth it when you want your bed, not some couch. The train is always there as well, can be a fun adventure. One would be surprised the fun people you can meet on LIRR or NJTransit at 2-5am.
Being "the guy on the couch" is not a flattering image, just because it's Manhattan, it does not mean that the couch is a free hotel.
But hey, if your idea of NYC culture & community consist of yuppie bars, the notion that EVERYONE drinks in NYC and big investment firm execs, then the puzzle pieces fit a little better. After all, the diversity, common sense and personality levels are quite high in those cirlcles, highlighted by the endless de ja vu of that same blue shirt. I desperately wish I could join this culturally rich and intellectually stimulating group but sadly, my one & only blue shirt was lost in a horrible drinking accident involving vomit. So until then, I will just have to dream about joining the sausage fest filled by the financial industry parasites.
P.S. I was just making a humorous comment about your initial awkward sounding post. You know being able to laugh at yourself is a good quality to have. Yet your lecture and stories of your Manhattan exploits & savvy were completely uncalled for.