Quote from soundfx:
Everyone trades in their own style to match their mastery of greed/fear and time they wish to allocate to trading. Sometimes rather than letting stops be blown when I've better things to do other than look at a trading screen, I'm happy to freeze bad trades and trade with the lie of the market when I return. The price I pay for temporarily freezing this loss is a bit of spread and comms. which is nothing compared to the gains which can be made if there's a clear market direction when I return.
I understand that you feel comfortable doing the hedge. It must satisfy some need to avoid taking a loss. Unfortunately, hedging is an offset if traded 1:1, so I wonder what is temporary about the loss when it's no longer paper and has been made real by the second trade? You no longer benefit from any retracement into the direction of the original position, but of course the pain has stopped.
It's an avoidance trade. It's analogous to the covered call writer shunning naked puts because he sleeps better with covered calls. If the additional vig allows you to psychologically-process the loss, that's fine, but you're doing yourself a disservice if you believe you're not taking another small loss with each hedge. The risk upon dissolution of the primary and hedge add additional risks. IMO, hedging is a gateway drug to other bad habits.
Set some hard-stops and forgive yourself for taking a loss. There is nothing better than starting with a clean blotter.
