Quote from tlow:
just did some really stupid stuff and made similar mistakes that I should've learned from by now.
Unbelievably, frustrating.... I completely let my emotions dictate how I exited this trade.
I violated about every rule I have to violate.
I still have some lingering frustration with myself ....
Im not sure what my deal is mentally and emotionally..... I have to fix these issues.....
something is missing big time with my mentality.
I've been going back in my notes and try to figure out when I had a pretty good run, what I was doing differently. And the only thing I can come up with, was keeping it simple, following my set-ups, and not being super emotional about anything. Is it really that simple?
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tlow,
You are having some hard times in trading and mainly because you can't control your "emotions' well ... so frustration & all the bad emotions will 'blind' you to think or see clearly and it will caused you to trade poorly.
if you have a mentor by yourside when you're trading ... he/she will remind you again & again or knock you on the head hard.. when you're repeating the same mistake or when you allow your emotions to dictate your trading ... if you're trading poorly still ... he/she will order you to take a "break" to relax/calm/clear your mind etc.
You don't have a mentor.. so how??? first, you gotta train yourself to be "mentally very strong" and must "master' youir emotions ... but how to do that??
we're only humans and humans are full of emotions ...bad emotions & good emotions ... i'm a person that full of feelings & emotions ... but when i'm trading ... i am totally "numb/calm/cool"... i will focus on what i need to do .. if i'm right ... i made big profit and if i'm wrong.. i took small loss and i won't let it affects me emotionally ... basically.. i put all my emotions to my loved ones, friends, music & art, food, gardening, do some charity works etc... and i go for swimming and yoga to relax... when trading .. i'm an ice-cold person to the "market" but outside of "trading" i am a passionate person.
Yes..keeping it simple, following your set-up and not being super emotional about trading ( you can be emotional about other things, like music or art etc) it's really simple key to success but sometime the smart engineers can't accept it coz it's too simple LOL
tlow ...i wish you good luck and if you can "master' your emotions then you'll be CP