Quote from wrbtrader:
That's part of the problem...some at ET want a serious trader chat room while others want something without the heavy duty trader talk. Simply, one chat room for all doesn't work.
With that said, there's some free chat rooms on IRC that has exactly what you said you want...without the heavy duty stuff...just casual chat. Just the same there are heavy duty trading/market chat rooms that are free on IRC but those tend to be private or invitational only.
Regardless, most of the free chat rooms I've visited...most of the users say they are members of EliteTrader.com, Traderslaboratory.com, ForexFactory.com, Babypips.com or Trade2win.com although they aren't going to say what their user name is at those forums.
Mark