Quote from jinxu:
So you assume all of that about me from a few sentences I wrote. Yeah whatever. There's a saying back where I'm from:
People make judgements based on a reflection of themselves then the ones it's directed to.
Maybe it's just me but I get the sense that swing traders are always "on edge". That's why I don't swing trade. There may be little stress involved but it adds up over time and with swing trading it's constant.
No assumptions actually, go back and read what you wrote. Or perhaps you are unaware of the implications of some of your statements. When you use a strong word like stigma, it's obvious that what society thinks about you is very important to you. No point dissecting all that you wrote, no one-upmanship necessary.
The basic point is that you can have anything that you want, if you know what it is that you want. You can even have all the things I listed if you plan out your time accordingly. There is also a saying if you don't know where you are going, any route will get you there.
Swing trading is boring if you swing trade and still sit in front of the screen all the time. I put on my trades and go and do other stuff, so it is something that happens in the background. Yes, there are times when you have to be there to manage a possible exit, otherwise there really is no reason to be glued to the screen.
If swing trading is stressful, you are trading with too much size. Let me give you an example with options. There are 2 basic models you can use, taking debit spreads as an example. First, where 100% loss in the position is the maximum loss you are willing to bear. In this case, no need to worry on a daily basis. Second, where say 30% or 40% loss in the position is the maximum loss you are willing to bear. In this case you will probably be watching the market pretty much all the time, because you are trading with a size in which you cannot afford to lose it all.
You are still young. Experiment, try out whatever comes to mind, take the time to know yourself and what you want in life. When you do, the decisions will be that much easier, and with any luck that much better.
If there is one unequivocal piece of advice I can give you, it is forget what society thinks about you and your choices in life. I've lived my life with one simple rule; the only thing that matters is that when I look in the mirror, I must be able to respect the person I see.