This is absolutely the best piece of advice and insight I’ve read on this and other forums.
People have no idea what they’re getting into.
I know I didn't. And it took me way too long to realize both that and how 99 % of posters and gurus on ET just ain't profitable, yet they love to "teach" and preach. Same thing with 99 % of educators and vendors elsewhere.
Now, I'm not saying it can't be done. It just requires an incredible amount of effort way beyond what most think when they're first starting out.
We all got to start somewhere =) I am willing to learn. May it take months or years. If you can guide me please do so but theres no point telling me to let it go on a trader platform =)
How many years are you prepared for it to take?
My advice to let it go isn't meant to be discouraging or negative, but actually helpful. If you choose to continue, please remember this post a few years down the line.
I can give you some general principles and guidelines if you're still interested.
1) Assume that most people here and elsewhere don't know sufficiently what they're talking about and preaching and that they're most likely net losers, but have some kind of strange fetish where they get off by acting like gurus or advice givers. There's a lot of sick people on the internet, so you never know why. Some may have been successful in the past. I suspect many are retirees who are gambling away their pension in the markets as hobbyists.
2) Building on the prior point you absolutely need to make sure that you back-test/back-check historical prices/relationships in order to learn the market as it is. Not how someone else claim it to be. Most stuff you'll find in books or here is just cherry picked stuff that may or may not work. The only way to know what works (and to build trust in it) and what doesn't work is to test, test, test and make notes/statistics.
3) The shorter your time frame and the higher your leverage the more difficult it is to succeed. I think your best bet is swing trading with lower leverage or investing. The returns may be potentially lower, but your chance of success is way higher. Also, you don't need to stay glued to the screens all day long.
There could be some people who are worth following and learning from. Just do your due diligence, don't trust anything blindly and generally be skeptical. I think for example Kristjan Kullamägi is the real deal. He's a swing trader mostly trading stocks. I never studied his stuff, but he seems like the real deal and actually teaches stuff for free as he's made his money in the markets and doesn't need to be an educator selling courses for income.