Off topic: Right now I can think of four different women, all lovely and in their 30s who seem happily married, kids, careers, etc. All four of them recently had or are still having secret affairs that their husbands are blissfully unaware of. Looking in from the outside, it would be impossible to tell anything is amiss.
I can think of a few male friends who all had affairs, and every one of them got busted by their ladies. This is not meant to be sexist at all... just making a point. I personally find men far more transparent and easy to "tell" than women. In my opinion, women are far better at concealment than men. To me, men tend to brag and/or be transparent, while women are wisely content to keep their truths hidden away.
I can think of a few male friends who all had affairs, and every one of them got busted by their ladies. This is not meant to be sexist at all... just making a point. I personally find men far more transparent and easy to "tell" than women. In my opinion, women are far better at concealment than men. To me, men tend to brag and/or be transparent, while women are wisely content to keep their truths hidden away.