I have to admit, I am a bit of a Jim Cramer fun (I hope to avoid any polarization such a statement makes). Anyway, one of the most interesting, and least discussed, aspect of his 'Street addict' book, is how he portrays his (former?) wife. There is a guy whose life is consumed by the market, pursuing portfolio performance ahead of anything, always in a state of emotional wreck, and always at the mercy of the 'market', even though at any time he could simply quit, and trade just for himself and make enough money to have a comfortable life.
On the other hand, his wife, which according to his own admittance could pick stocks better than he could and was a better trader than him, is always quietly saving his b*tt, sets limits, and is the backbone of his trading operation. It was she that eventually choose to give it up and stay home in order to be with her kids and enjoy life.
I actually think women make better traders; the reason they don't appear as much in these forums is because they don't need to. What's worst, if you take a look at the popular investment/trading press, the 'analyst men' are of all kids, young/old/bold/wise/wis-cracks, you get the idea. Look at the women, they the typical dolled up pretty-faced, 'look-at' me type. This does nothing but amplify the 'marry the trader' perception that has been mentioned in this thread.
I am having such a hard time trying to steer my two daughters into a healthy place in society, and hope they will learn about investments and eventually trading. I think they can do so much better than I can, but going easy for now. But I sure hope they are successful, without having to marry the 'prince'. After all, who else is going to pay for my live-in assisted care facility when I have early onset Alzheimer ?
