Two points:
-- we're *all* "sitting on the sidelines, waiting to enter" -- right up to the point that an order crosses to hit us. And then, "Poof!" we're gone! {multiple orders, aside....

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-- by conflating buyers with "Bulls" and sellers with "Bears", we (in this thread) have confused the issue. I think, if we just substituted
buyers and
sellers into the appropriate spaces above, we'd all be pretty much in agreement.
For example, a "Bull" buyer wants to buy low, may hang back to see if the mkt will drop a bit and give them some free breathing room -- they wait, they waitttttt, and then "Pop!" They're in.
And now they are sellers! And feel increasingly bearish as the stock (for example) drifts up. They see 20 pts go by... 22.... 26! And now it's outright skepticism! 27pts is too much! I'll put my [long] exit at 28! 27.80.... 27.45..... And now that Bull has acted like a Bear, marching their order down-doobie-do-down-down........"Ding!"
Supper's ready!
"Exactly!" So, whether "Bull" or "Bear" is a lot less important than whether you're holding or not, and then how you're looking to exit.
Howd eye dew?
Let’s see,..
For every transaction there is a buyer and seller so those distinctions don’t appear any more helpful than the bulls or bears.
We only know the more aggressive of the two crossed the spread and paid the premium in exchange for having a position now and not lose out on opportunity cost.
The aggressive trader uses market orders and gets filled when passive traders are not ( at turns.)
Of the buyers there are those whom are already in and actively accumulating, already in and taking profits. Traders holding are not buyers or sellers yet. Only until they submit an order do they have any effect.
Any buyer is only a buyer if they expect the price to improve after they have committed. Until then they are on the sidelines and have no effect. They could play around with adding and subtracting orders at various levels away from the current two-pair of price. It only has an effect when the ephemeral adding/deleting crystallizes into a solid wall on the DOM and price reversed before or after attempting but failing to ‘eat’ through it. The limit orders of the passive buyers on the other side do not get filled and left watching dust as price takes off in their intended direction but without them. This could be an sudden move, but more likely a migrating drift.
Of course, if I’m passive bullish, I’m always looking to buy low and sell high. If I’m more aggressive I’m equally likely to buy high and sell higher. Just by virtue of being a bull.
So at the start of the day one has a bullish bias and enters straightaway. At the end of the day price improved. To say the sellers controlled the day because buyers had to pay a higher price discounts the fact that the only folks who extracted profits were the early buyers cashing out at higher prices. Even by not cashing out their position has improved. A seller can only be a seller if they have something to sell.
So if at the start of the day the bias is bearish and one enters straightaway, this same day my selling at the end on the day ends up in a loss.
As a sidelined seller I could think I’m controlling the day by not entering, but I’m only a seller if I have something to sell, meaning I’m already in.
How good of a seller would I be if everything I sell I buy at a higher price? Not so good. Which means I have to buy at a low price. To buy at a low price with the intention to sell at a higher one is what someone bullish wants to do. In this case a bull in a bear suit.
So what looked like just bulls and bears is also bulls in bear suits and bears in bull suits.
Just be mindful where you step!
But how does this reconcile the saying as it appears in RE? A sellers market is one where there’s not enough inventory for demand. So in this case what you suggest would be true. By not participating as a seller my asset increases. But again as a seller you have to have something to sell.
But whose controlling price?
The majority by their demand or the minority by their supply?
Also the corollary, the majority by their supply or the minority by their demand?
What is the the one thing that makes crossing the spread and paying the premium worth it?
In both cases it’s the minority that controls price by the variable that unites price and volume in a relationship.
Only the minority understands the importance of this variable.
Only the minority uses market orders to capitalize on this variable.
Paradoxically this variable consistently changes and changes consistently.
It’s the only variable that can be consistently and accurately predicted in the PV relationship.