Quote from paulr:
We have all done it - gone off our plan or failed to honor a stop that we ourselves set.
The question is why?
It's not like we don't all know that is what we have to do.
paulr,
I don't understand what your saying...
are you wondering why do traders ignore
Mental Stops?
Reason why I ask...if you have a
Hard Stop that can only be manually removed from your execution platform...traders will have very little problems in honoring their stops
No trader is perfect...impossible to remove emotions from trading...
however...good traders don't make
consistent errors like that.
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Note: All my bad trading streaks that lasted more than a few days...are usually because of outside issues in my life that was affecting my trading...
Therefore, something (an issue) that had nothing to do with the markets...was influencing me pyschologically...which in turn influence my trading.
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There is a connection between profits and our state of mind...how we mentally interact with the markets.
That's a fact.
There are decent books on many psychological issues that "consistently" sabotage traders while the traders aren't aware of such...
1. Exceptional Trading The Mind Game
2. Trading In The Zone
3. The Intuitive Trader
4. The Discipline Trader
and several others.
Once again...one of the biggest reasons why traders fail...is because of the psychology of trading.
Regardless to what type of stops you have...
if your having problems respecting such stops...
you need to stop trading...
do some inner searching...
ask questions (like your doing)...
and maybe find a trading pal local to you and trade with.
Why did I bring up the trading pal?
I tested this out myself with a friend that's an emotional trader...
and based on that particular experience...it does help a lot to control things if your an emotional trader.
Simply, trying to convince yourself to stay in a bad or losing trade is one thing...but trying to convince your trading pal is entirely a different issue.
Another way to look at the above...you want to search for ways to break old bad habits.
If you can set something up like this with someone...try it to see if it helps with other trading problems besides issues about ignoring stops.
P.S. Don't just be another trader that saids..."I will not blow past my stop"..."I will be profitable"...
instead...be a trader that finds the reason for self-sabotage...more often not...the reason is not related to the markets.
NihabaAshi