Helpme_please, you seem to be curious about trend following as a trading method, so I'll inject my 2 cents into the conversation.
Getting whipsawed is a problem that everyone faces, not just a trend follower. How many times has your automatic stop been triggered, only to watch price rally to new highs? Doesn't matter what trading strategy you're using if your stops are not properly placed. And in the end, even if your stop price is optimal, you will still get randomly whipsawed on occasion. (Like Ed Seykota says: if you want to stop getting whipsawed, quit trading.)
There are 2 solutions to a trend trader who complains about getting whipped out of a highly volatile, non-trending stock. Solution #1 is simply to quit putting money into non-trending securities. If the trader insists that the security is indeed in a trend, or historically tends to trend, then he needs to implement Solution #2, which is to optimize the placement of stop loss orders.
I am a trend trader and there are plenty of securities that I simply avoid. Not because they are volatile, but because they, historically, do not trend well. There are plenty of highly volatile securities that do trend well (I personally trade as a trend-trader 3x ETFs on a regular basis, along with very active stocks), and have been rewarded handsomely along the way.