Quote from samus:
IMHO... Traders fail because of fear. Traders who trade with fear are not consistently profitable over the long haul. Those that can trade with a carefree state of mind are the most successful.
You can study technical analysis until your blue in the face... but it will never completely conquer or manage your fears. I use TA to give me an edge... thats it. It serves nothing more than to define an edge -- the probability that the market will move in my direction. If it doesn't, I exit the trade when it hits my pre-defined risk and consider the small loss as the cost of doing business.
I recently started trading full time and could only make the move from a good paying job as a software manager once I learned to eliminate fear from my trading.
I'm consistently profitable and make more money than the job I recently quit. Learn to manage your fears, eliminate the stress and take advantage of the opportunities the markets make available every day.
An excellent book I recommend is "Trading In The Zone". Once I read this book, I threw all the others out.
People throw the word fear around without defining it. Let's spend some time identifying fear.
If fear is an object, I want you to point it out to me. You hesitate. You claim it is inside your head, I cut your head open, and fail to find it. You claim it is in your heart, I cut your heart open, fear is not there. So it is logical to conclude that there is no fear.
So what is fear? Fear can be defined as either cognitive process/thoughts/thinking, or physiological responses such as sweating.
Let's focus on the first definition:
Our mind doesn't generate thoughts on its own, it does so after being stimulated by outside forces. Could the outside forces be a series of losses in trading? I guess this sequence of events (losses-->fear) is very common in trading. If you agree, you must also agree that fear comes AFTER losses. Next time you blame fear for your losses, you should try to remember where the fear comes from in the very first place. Therefore, the sequence of events might look like this: losses-->fear-->losses. If you swear by the Bible that your fear comes before you even start trading, let me guess that your fear is based on other people's losses (vicarious experience, that is. You heard it, you read it, you observed it. That's why some people are afraid of snakes before being bitten by one. By the way, 95% of human knowledge is vicariously obtained. Don't ask me where I got this "95%.").
You are not afraid anymore, because you are not losing anymore. The sequence of events should be: wins-->disappearance of fear. It cannot be the opposite way. To win, you need to lose a lot, that's the reason that some say you need a large account to survive the learning process. Since 95% of human knowledge is vicarious, you might as well find someone who has already gone through the learning process, which is full of losses. If you want to know whether breaking a leg bone is painful, you don't have to break your own leg to know that, you simply ask someone who broke his leg. In trading, you find a mentor who blew his account once or twice, so that you don't have to blow your own account. It must be emphasized that direct experience is much more impressive than vicarous experience.
OK, back to outcome. Two outcomes: pleasant and unpleasant. Each outcome comes at two levels: physical and psychological. Since trading involves money, let's focus on physical outcome.
A pleasant outcome has two types: win money and avoid losing money. An unpleasant outcome also has two types: lose money and fail to win money. Now we have four possible outcomes that determine the trading behaviors. The pleasant outcomes (win money and avoid losing money) increase any trading behavior that leads to the outcomes in the first place (After all, outcome is the result of a prior trading behavior); the unpleasant outcomes (lose money and fail to win money) decrease any trading behavior that leads to the outcomes in the first place.
To explain the above ideas, let me use a very simple example: you put your hand on a burning stove (behavior) and get burned (unpleasant outcome, pleasant smell though), you won't do it again (decrease of behavior, actually total disappearance to many people).
I know, you are asking yourself: Why the hell did I do it again and again?