Quote from oilfxpro:
They come to internet marketing sites, where snake oil operators sell them suicidal systems and training , and brainwash them into losers.
Being around people who are successful, and who also can model or teach what they are doing,
may be missing for those who never succeed.
I have two friends who signed up for those infomercial learn-to-trade sites. Neither found success that way. And each spent some tens of thousands on the training.
Yet in addition to what others are saying here, there may be a part that is 'caught more than taught'. ...or is caught as much as taught.
Point is, what you 'catch' needs to be from good people and a match for you!
Some of that you can get from ET, and some of the great people who talk to you here.
Also, there are good classes out there.
I'm using an on-line mentor, associated with a live class I took. I'm still a beginner, but spending a few hours a week one on one with a competent mentor... they watch me trade, I watch them, ...this is working. You just pick things up from them. And some are not as tangible as others.
The only other thing IMO here is trading live with only one or two contracts (I trade the ES mainly) for just however long it takes to learn the skill sets, and to make the obvious mistakes, and to watch how the market changes over time. Try a few mentors, find yourself. Take years if needed.
Hope that helps. Sounds like you are on a good track.
all the best