Quote from denner:
A bit confused on this last point. There is no doubt in my mind that the elite Eastern boarding schools have some of the most intelligent students around and are a fast track to gain admissions to Ivy League schools. On the other hand, gaining admissions to the schools you've listed above is no small task, more than likely requiring the parent to spend quite a large sum of money on private elementary schools (which aren't exactly cheap either).
As far as college taking care of itself after that...how? No doubt the child will have a better shot at getting into a prestigious college or university, but the parent will still have to foot the bill in most cases. If you were to total up the amount of money it costs nowadays to send kids to the best elementary schools + best high school/prep schools + undergrad, we are literally talking $400,000 or thereabouts. To say that this is obscene is an understatement.
Well, I didn't do a good job of explaining. It's true that giving your child a first rate primary and secondary education is expensive. It is not as expensive, however, as an education at one of the elite colleges and universities. If you send your kid to one of the prep schools I mentioned, or their equivalent, you'll be pleased to know that these expensive schools have big endowments and lots of scholarships available for worthy students regardless of family income, in fact I don't know of any that don't try to enroll good students from all walks of life. If you're wealthy, you will be expected to pay a lot, but the amount of the tuition you pay will be adjusted according to your means, once your child is admitted. It will be expensive, of course. But your kid will get a great education and lots of individual attention. Class sizes are very small and all of these schools expect their students to study at their campuses abroad for at least a semester and the only difference in cost is transportation.
As a result of their superior education, most of the kids graduating from these schools score very high on the SAT and ACT exams, and a high score can be an all expenses paid trip to many first rate colleges and Universities across the country. It's true that your child will still have to compete to get into the most selective schools, but they will be very well-prepared to do so. You may still have to pay something, but again, what you pay will be adjusted according to your ability to pay.
One of my kids went to public high school and then to Yale, the other went to Choate for high school and then to Rice. Both had scholarships, thank god!, though I still had some pretty hefty expenses. Looking back on this experience, however, there is no doubt in my mind that the latter route provided the most education bang for the buck, and that's what i would recommend to any parents out there. Keep in mind that you still have to pay attention to grade school and junior high or your kid is not going to get into Choate, but by no means are all the kids in these outstanding boarding schools from wealthy families.
