I used to lose because I didn't have an edge. I didn't even know what an edge was, I placed trades blindly sometimes they went in my direction most of the time they didn't. When they did go in my direction, I got out immediately, when they moved against me, I stayed in the trade forever hoping it would turn around, but it never did, and I used to lose 5% of my equity on one trade, sometimes more. The market was the atlantic ocean for me and I was stranded somewhere between NY and London on a rubber dingy that was quickly taking in water.
But through persistence - yes, persistence, I found my edge, nothing too complicated something simple but it works, and more importantly I realized, once I am in a trade, I am the only one that can give myself profits and I am the only one who can take a small loss. Let me repeat that: I realized I am the only one who has control over my profits and losses. So now, I stay in a trade very calmly not freaking out if the trade goes against me and take the small loss but more importantly when the trade goes in my favor I let it run using a trailing resistance band and when it wants to go no further, I take profits and I guess that is how you win on a small scale in trading.
And oh! yes! I have conviction in my trading plan, full conviction, I know over a large number of trades, I will have more winners than losers. Self confidence is key.
Thanks.