Quote from zdreg:
there is an old saying the the giver of a gift always gets more pleasure than the receiver.
the character of many ET posters is a turnoff..
no pleasure. no gift.
Many posters here have pointed out what does work and what does not work for them. However, they only talk in generalities - they leave it up to you to figure out the details - as it SHOULD be
The OP is asking the wrong question - a winner does not ask that type of question