Did you ever think it was not dangerous, especially in this current rollercoaster environment?

Seriously, I really did try my best to swing for at least a few days, but I ended up losing big time...like the 60 point loss in ES today (that's $3,000 per contract) and I have no friggin' idea where I screwed up. I imagined 60 points should be more than wide enough to cushion any blows. But hell no.
Please don't tell me to tighten my stop. If I use a tighter stop, you might as well tell me to just go back to day trading.
I'm a newb and by no means an experienced consistently profitable trader so take what I'm stating here with a grain of salt, but this is an interesting conversation and here's my two cents. It's just the environment were in at the moment that is leading to a lot of crappy breakouts that fall to the downside shortly so after. I'm seeing it on numerous charts, so don't beat yourself over it. This environment is very difficult and not really attune with swing/position trading. I can't speak much for /ES since I don't have much experience with futures, but nonetheless the same principles apply (other than the fact that futures are super leveraged).
The best swing/position trades are the ones where you are right from the beginning, i.e. you initiate a trade and bam profit, and profits continue for days. Imo, when you know you're in profit that reduces some psychological stress, because now if things were to go to the downside, your losing the house's money not yours.
As Jesse Livermore used to say, I'm paraphrasing, but "traders attach fear and hope in the wrong places, when a trade goes your way and you're in profit, that's when you should be hopeful and let it run, but when trade doesn't go your way from the beginning that's when you should be fearful and likely exit." Obviously, the market environment plays a huge role in this, and maybe quicker exits are warranted in this shitty market, but you get the point.
Maybe I have a narrow definition of a swing/position trade, but my idea is that if an upside breakout doesn't hold up near the close of the day and the volume is weak, it's a failed breakout and if you traded it you were wrong, exit even if it doesn't hit your stop. Keep it in the watchlist and re-evaluate it if it still looks interesting. Even if it does breakout, it needs to be with conviction, clearly going above and closing above a recent resistance channel on strong volume.
I'm new to trading, but from my strategy so far...I don't buy immediate intraday pivot breaks. I typically like to enter mid to near end-day session to see if the breakout stays and has conviction, this probably gives me a worse entry, but my thinking is that's fine if the price appreciation follows for days, weeks, months, years.
A logical stop would be a little below the old resistance area, for some leeway, as price may retrace and test that level, and sometimes it can go past that resistance area on some liquidity clearing. From what I've seen though, in bull markets, this test to old resistance/new support doesn't really happen often, usually you see companies, typically small to mid caps like this explode to the upside after breakouts. If they don't that's okay, your stop may get hit, but you're losing less capital and can re-allocate it to the $$$ opportunities. Better this than having a loose stop where you think a breakout will lead to price advances and it doesn't and you end up losing a lot of money.
In bear markets, I think it's best to lower the position size so you can still afford to keep a tight stop, but nonetheless it's just not the kind of environment that is conducive to this kind of trading. Price appreciation following a breakout is less of a guarantee when you have the market pulling its downward weight on everything. I think studying the macro and fundamentals are important, but especially in bear markets because you can try and see which industries are holding up, which industries have a competitive advantage in this environment, and which companies are taking advantage of this in the biggest way.
Also paying attention to weekly charts is crucial. If you're only trading to hold for days, then it may not provide much use to you, but if the stock you bought isn't having such a great day or days, and is approaching a stop, looking at the weekly chart can give you a better perspective on whether or not to hold or exit.
Basically, risk management is a huge part of trading lol.