Quote from wromgway:
Many times you don't really know there is a trend until the end of the day, and that tends to limit your thinking and you get locked into the whole top picking thing. I used to do this, mostly trade ES last few years fwiw, but it does limit your profit because the bad days (strong trend days in this scenario) always ate a huge chunk of cash. And yes, I have saved many a trade and many a trend day in fact with crazy double strategies, adds etc. but as you know you are really hung out at times and there is a great amount of stress with this method. And as you know, the entry needs to be near perfect because there may be only a point or at most two available in a counter move in a good trend... I am sure you know all this
At any rate, I think I finally got really tired of it, and here's what I did. I thought about everything that goes into fighting the trend, but at the same time I realized that I often cannot tell if it is a trend on most days, until after the fact. Then, I adjusted my style to take into account these new thoughts. For instance, I still pick tops, and I am pretty good at it after all that practice; but on that, say if I am trading five cars, I forbid myself to double to save a bad trade. So, I had to let it ride or take it off. Later, I found that I could pull say three back if it was against me either 2 or 3 ticks, which left 2 on if the market did what I thought, and only 2 more to pull off if it went completely bad. This one thing really got me going right, because in the end it allowed me to relax more and view the market action, instead of concentrating to get that exact tick to add the number of cars that will return my cash. That fixed the top picking, because you need that ability to add to a losing trade to make the strategy pay.
Anyway, as I said I still top pick, but I only pile on in winners, instead of the losers as well. Now, buying pullbacks is easier, as I have developed a set of rules, simple really that I use to define a trend. Then, when the eventual pullback happens, I jump in and use basically the same rules to govern the trade as the top pick. If it's a winner, I let it ride or double it or whatever; if it's a loser I usually dump it immediately and start figuring the next move, looking for a rejection or whatever...
At any rate, I have been lurking here and trading full time since August, 1999, so I hope I made sense and have helped. It can be very frustrating, but honestly, it's a great problem because if you are good at top picking, your entry skills have been honed to a fine edge; this edge will serve you well when you turn around your thinking. Stay the course, the hard work has been done and you are nearing a milestone. One final note; I personally don't believe in any indicators etc. I have never found them to help, and I went through that whole thing like every trader does (a couple years worth). In my opinion, if they worked the banks would already be running them a million times better and I couldn't make money that way. I know many traders disagree, but I personally have never seen a system that could not be explained by luck, or the market conditions, or curve fitting, or, well you know. Hell, I can't even prove my trading isn't luck for that matter. I guess, just like the daily trend, no one knows until it's over. Well, I've rambled enough and I hope I gave you at least something to think on. These are just my thoughts so please use or discard them freely. Best of luck.