Quote from 00009:
I would like some advice who had that as a main problem and solved it. How he done it.
I know it's mine problem no.1, whatever I think that I need to do to trade in the direction of trend in the end I don't do it. Now I became so good in picking the tops because it's only way to get profits having this problem. But it's not the good way to trade because risk is to big and reward small.
I'm aware that it's out of mine conscious control, so how to help myself, practical ideas or experiences?
Well I selectively fight the trend at what I think to be inflection points. After all, fighting the trend is highly profitable if you do it when the trend is about to end.
The "problem" is fighting the trend at the wrong time. I used to do it and the cure was simply experience. After following these moves for 10 years+ I slowly got used to them and learned to distinguish between when to follow and when to fight the trend. Basically you should not fight an established trend *except* when there is serious price overextension, a major imbalance of johnny-come-lately trend-following speculators in the market (you can tell this from price action & media comment), and market price action which suggests the end is imminent (i.e. price has gone parabolic and then starts to falter and/or turn down rapidly).
You obviously have a psychological bias in your trading. Your bias is to always be fading moves. There are several ways to cure it:
i) keep trying to fight the trend at all times, take repeated losses, and finally have a big loss which is so damn painful (and possibly bankrupting) that you learn your lesson.
ii) gain years of market experience so that finally you learn when and when not to fight a trend
iii) don't take any counter-trend trades at all for the next 12 months, only trade with an established trend on your side. Only buy markets at year-highs or all-time highs. You might not make money but you should cure your trend-fading addiction.