You're asking a lot of questions which are circling the point without really getting to it.
The point is not whether indicators are "useless" or not. First, you have to decide what it is you want them to do.
If you want to know when you can "expect" the trend to run out, look at support and resistance and learn how to interpret volume, perhaps candles. If you want something that will tell you the trend is over "BEFORE" it happens, you're out of luck. The best you can hope for is a suggestion, or an "indication" (hence, indicator).
If you're trading trends, learn how to draw a trendline. When the TL is broken, the trend is likely to change. It may continue its momentum, but at a slower pace. It may drift sideways. Or it may reverse.
A break of the last reaction point, high or low, is confirmation of a trend reversal, though that reversal may itself reverse. This is where coils come from.
It sounds, though, like you don't want to wait for confirmation of reversal. You'd rather get out nearer the end of the trend. If that's the case, then you're going to have to learn something about scaling out of a position, 'cause there's no way you're going to exit at the end of the trend on the money, indicators or no indicators.