I think that RN's response was the most sensible of the lot.
Each person has their own comfort level regarding risk and drawdowns and their account capitalization. There is no such thing as certainty in trading, and if your personality demands "certainty" please find another line of work - a government job, perhaps.
You have to come to terms with the idea that every trade you put on will be underwater at some point during its' lifespan. The more appropriate question truly is: "what is your position drawdown tolerance"?
I would suggest that you answer that question first. Based upon your response, the next step in the procedure would be to choose products or instruments with daily trading ranges and vols that mirror your drawdown tolerance. Once you've satisfied those questions, then you design your trading system. I say that because a trading system for Eurodollars is likely to be a bit different than a trading system for 6E for example. Your position holding timeframes and capitalization requirements will dictate how your trading system is designed.
When my clients choose to go live, we typically have an individual "heart-to-heart" about their account capitalization and what sizing and products they should start out with.
Even with large capitalization, I have some clients that just don't need the aggravation or dopamine rush that comes from trading an RBOB Crack Spread. They would just rather lever the piss out of a Eurodollar Condor. In the end, it's all about the bottom line. You have to reconcile some things for yourself in terms of the five inches between your ears.
I think newish traders should pay much more attention to the instruments they choose to trade and their position holding timeframes. It's rarely talked about, but in fact IMHO it's probably just as important as the trade entry signal itself. I say that because from my experience new and even more seasoned traders tend to sabotage
themselves and their trading entries.
And, quite frankly, flat price markets are so turbulent and choppy generally speaking that really tight stops to control risk might be more a part of the problem than good position management.
Just my thoughts born of experience and client work.