The first two books to really help me (certainly were not the first that I bought) were The Candlestick Course by Steve Nison and Support & Resistance Simplified by Michael Thomsett.
Whatever patterns or candle formations you choose to stat with, just focus on one or two. Learn what time frames they are most often found, what conditions are they most effective and what conditions exist most when they fail.
A good way to practice spotting these formations is to print out charts and cover them with a sheet of paper. Uncover one candle at a time until you find your pattern. Next decide if you buy or sell and play out your trades on paper, one candle at a time. Do it until you can easily spot a formation or two.
Ask questions from anyone you know to trade successfully. After you feel somewhat comfortable finding your trade signals, then trade them on a simulator.
Keep your job until you have proven you are consistently profitable. If you work nights, record the day's activity on a simulator and play it at night. If you at that time think a guru is helpful get references.