When someone asks "what you do for a living" what do you answer!

Originally posted by SilverBullet
Yeah heres one I have used....
I was asked what I do by a friends 'fundamentalist' dad...who is an I banker.....anyways I told him Im a prop. day trader....and he went on about how its bullshit and blah blah blah to the rest of the dinner table at a rather nice restaurant were eatinf dinner at.

So, knowing that he had lost a shitload on paper from certain tech IPO his firm launched, I asked him in front of everyone how that loss was going for him. I then informed all how much I made on it.....he got flustered and went on about shorting stocks, and the uptick....and generally babbled while he got pissed off...in front of the entire dinner table too! So I explained to everyone (generally uneducated with trading) what a bullet was and how shorting works......

and then I ordered him this bottle of 1988 Grof, and told the table that I hope he felt better that he was getting something for the money I had taken from him on that particular stock.


I'd rather avoid situations like that...When I was younger I used to be more "in people's face" about this and that, but I don't want to be the antagonist about this stuff...In this market, ALOT of people are super sensitive about their losses and remember these people are probably alot older than you...The last thing anyone wants to hear is about how someone is making money while they are losing their shirt...It really does create for alot of tension, been thru it a number of times...Man, I avoid getting into the trading thing with almost everybody else who does not trade for the exact reasons you outlined above...
And Id do it again....
 
Originally posted by SilverBullet
But can someone please explain to me exactly WHY day trading has such poor connotations among many of the public? Is it because fundamentals are no longer important (although they are the underlying part of stock prices) or is it because we can make money when they lose it....essentially a zero sum game.

From the public's view, you are in a job that anyone can do. You are your own boss, you sit behind a computer everyday, and watch porn, most of the time (not applicable to all daytraders). Some days you can make deposits that turn people's heads. This job is all over the place, there is no order in this industry. It all comes down to you and how you conduct yourself.

It isn't until people invest money and lose their ass, until you get respect from them as a daytrader.
 
Originally posted by SilverBullet
....essentially a zero sum game.

I don't understand this whole "zero sum game" mentality. I mean, if I short a stock....you buy it....you sell it for a ten cent gain....stock falls 1 point.....i cover my short buying from a guy who sells it to me for a 10 cent loss:

I made money;
you made money;
guy lost money.

where does the zero sum fit in here?

-PPPound
 
Originally posted by Pound

I made money;
you made money;
guy lost money.

where does the zero sum fit in here?
-PPPound
Let's look closer:

I made money ($1/share)
you made money ($0.1/share)
guy lost money ($1.10)

But, $1 gain+$0.1 gain - $1.1 loss = $0 (that's basically the zero sum, prior to commissions and fees)
 
Pound,

You left out one thing. When you shorted the stock you just borrowed it from someone else who was long in the stock. They lost money too. 2 people made money 2 people lost money. The reason the it is a zero sum game is because all you do when you buy a stock is put you money into the persons account that sold you the stock. When you sell the stock someone else is just putting money in your account. Money is just transferred from one account to another. Nothing more than a zero sum game.
 
Originally posted by Fohat
Let's look closer:

I made money ($1/share)
you made money ($0.1/share)
guy lost money ($1.10)

But, $1 gain+$0.1 gain - $1.1 loss = $0 (that's basically the zero sum, prior to commissions and fees)

Yep. That's a good illustration. But, academics called it a "zero sum game" in theory. That's in a "frictionless" world(i.e. no slippage, commission, market impact,etc.) But in the real world, it ends up being a "negative sum game", b/c of the factors I listed.
 
Someone posted a classic response to this question, and I crack up every time I think of it.

"I am a piano player in a whorehouse."



But seriously, what is it about MD's that make them such @$$wipes. (no offense to the fine physicians who frequent this board) Is it something that is beaten into them in med school? You almost never hear stories about how this "amazing doctor" investigated someones illness and though deep thinking and dillignece solved the problem. It is always "I had to go to three jerks before I could even get someone who would listen to me for five minutes". I have never seen a group of people so arrogant and condescending yet so ineffective at their stated task.
 
Originally posted by brokershopping
I have never seen a group of people so arrogant and condescending yet so ineffective at their stated task.

Wouldn't you be condescending too if you looked up butts all day?
 
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