Quote from tomdavis:
Government should be small and stay the hell out of people's lives. That includes marriage. What consenting adults do in private is none of my business, the government's business or your business either.
Government should get out of the marriage business and stay out. Let adults make any private legal arrangements they want.
Explaining gay relationships to children is not difficult. My wife and I have had that discussion with our children. They get it. No problem.
yea... my son had a friend with two dads in kindegarten.
No problem.
Its not the relationship concept that is the issue for kids.
its the behavior.
The boy had a birthday party at the bowling alley. My son went to the party.
We he got home I was sort of amused.
He started to ask question like where is the mom?
Is it normally to have 2 dads.
He even said something like why does the one guy act like a mom.
Now I knew this guy.
While the other dad acted like a totally normal guy.
I knew him from coaching baseball, the second dad was a flamer.
He did really turn his act down around the kids but he was still not a normal acting guy.
Big flamer during the day.
Small flame at night at the kids baseball games.
What do you tell your kid when he asks if that is normal.
I know one thing. I don't lie to my kids.
So the conversation ends for about 5 or 6 years.
about a year ago... at a soccer game... my son asked me a question. I said something like know because my son had to do something else then another kid something... then mikey said that is so gay... then looks at me and says... no offense.
this had been the running joke at the school.
they would say... that is so gay... and then look at someone and say no offense.
I thought that sort of summed up kids and p.c.