I have a bad habit of playing with people...when it doesnt seem like playing. I sometimes give them a "jestful middle finger". I do it to my dad, my wife, my boss, coworkers...whoever. Most of the time it is understood as playful.
To add insult to injury, i live in a foreign country, where american jestures or mannerisms by not be interpreted quite the same way. different cultures have different interpretations.
i was at a party that my competition was throwing. I was there sort of to "spy" a bit. fell them out and see what we could do to beat them. I was the only one there from my company, and everything was fine. I had about 3 glasses of wine...and then the CEO walked in. At some point in this guys life he has been the CEO of the central bank, Minister of finance, CEO of the stock exchnage. A good guy, we have had drinks on several occasions, but none the less one of the most powerful guys in the country.
I wanted to say "man, what are you doing here..this is the competition! are you buddies with the competition???" instead, from across the room I gave him a "playful finger" to say "what are YOU doing here!". a few people saw this. being the good guy that he is... he called me over and told me to get a cab and go home.
The next day i apologized for being so american and overstepping the boundries. He said it was ok and he has done much worse over a few drinks.
I still have my job.
To add insult to injury, i live in a foreign country, where american jestures or mannerisms by not be interpreted quite the same way. different cultures have different interpretations.
i was at a party that my competition was throwing. I was there sort of to "spy" a bit. fell them out and see what we could do to beat them. I was the only one there from my company, and everything was fine. I had about 3 glasses of wine...and then the CEO walked in. At some point in this guys life he has been the CEO of the central bank, Minister of finance, CEO of the stock exchnage. A good guy, we have had drinks on several occasions, but none the less one of the most powerful guys in the country.
I wanted to say "man, what are you doing here..this is the competition! are you buddies with the competition???" instead, from across the room I gave him a "playful finger" to say "what are YOU doing here!". a few people saw this. being the good guy that he is... he called me over and told me to get a cab and go home.
The next day i apologized for being so american and overstepping the boundries. He said it was ok and he has done much worse over a few drinks.
I still have my job.
