SPY closes at 16:00 or 4pm flat. Has been doing so for something like 9 years now. It's odd that you weren't aware of this.
sourceTrust me, the professionals in this market watch this very closely. They have approximately 1.5 hours after the close to make their decision on whether or not to exercise. The most common examples of this behavior are with ETFs like the Spiders (NYSE:SPY) and the PowerShares QQQ Trust (NASDAQ:QQQQ). These options even trade through 4:15 p.m. Eastern, but the options are settled based on the 4 p.m. close. Because of this, you might be assigned on an option you are short when you don’t expect it.
The puts were not assigned. I ended up closing part of the position in the after hours because I would rather be long than short going into one of the most bullish weeks of the year. I'll close out the remainder or sell some ITM puts on Monday to neutralize the position and then manage it from there.
I really don't think the 4:00 PM equities close matters for SPY. The close to consider in regards to assignment is when the options market closes. Think about it logically. Why would a trader exercise an OTM put that expires in 5 mins when they can just sell off all or part of their long equities position in the aftermarket and fetch a better price? Even though SPY equities may have been trading in after hours past 4:00, there was still good volume from 4:00 to 4:15, similar to the volume from 3:00 to 3:30 and greater than many other intervals during regular trading hours.
I agree with what you are saying, but where the 4pm close matters is for the auto exercise of options. A trader will have to proactively file a contrary exercise form, or exercise something manually that was out of the money at 4pm if he feels it is correct based on later trading. There are many retail traders that may not do this, or aren't watching.