Originally posted by aphexcoil
Anyone can enter, it is the exits that seperate the men from the boys.
I fully agree.
You can make it when you know when to hold and when to fold.
This is so key. It's one of the way to find the 'holy grail', the real one, the one inside.
When you lose (and even later when you finally make money) analyze ALL your trades.
Find when you should have hold and when you should have quit. Study this long enough (very long maybe). If you find a pattern, trade against this pattern (trade against yourself : hold when you would not, quit when you would hold).
After a while you will get your edge that way. that's why the holy grail is inside and not in books or seminars. that's why it's personal to each trader too.
if you don't see a pattern, there can be 2 reasons :
- you don't see patterns in life : you should not be trading ! forget about it.. sorry. Not all jobs are for everyone.
- you see patterns, but there are none to find in your trading : you don't use a proper method. find one (on this board, several are described, go to a seminar at a prop firm, find one in a book), stick to it, just ONE. then go through the analyzing I mentioned above.
entry is what concerns most when they start. it was my case too of course. truth is, entry level is not so important (direction of entry is more important actually).
But the real deal is the exit.
2 traders in front of each other. they both enter at the same time, but they must choose their exits.
you will soon find out who is the junior and who is the senior. (only exception is when traders don't usually trade the same time frame, then forcing someone in another timeframe than his holy grail time frame may confuse him).
On purpose I used holy grail several times in this post. Holy grail does NOT exist as such, as it is looked for by many. Several coaches now do say it exist inside the trade. it's an internal quest, not external. And I wanted to give a shot at explaining what that means.
Don't confuse this with when others (and myself) do say there is no holy grail. then we refer to external holy grail (something another trader can tell you, or you can buy, or a secret which would make everything clear and trading easy and very profitable).
tntneo