give a shout out to "coach"...he likes helping out the ladies 
You stated its a neutral strat therefore keeping fairly delta neutral may make sense. Don't over adjust, you have a ways to go with the back month being Dec. IF you are right and the market between now and Nov trades in the 1220-1380 range you'll make money on both diagonals. More likely you may make money on one but lose on the other. That is why I suggested staggering the close (or roll). Of course you will temporarily no longer be delta neutral...but delta neutral is not a holy grail and with calendars/diagonals there are other greeks equally important namely vega. To see more possibilities why don't you run a couple of sim trades along with the real trade then you can try out various adjustments and see for yourself how they will work out.

You stated its a neutral strat therefore keeping fairly delta neutral may make sense. Don't over adjust, you have a ways to go with the back month being Dec. IF you are right and the market between now and Nov trades in the 1220-1380 range you'll make money on both diagonals. More likely you may make money on one but lose on the other. That is why I suggested staggering the close (or roll). Of course you will temporarily no longer be delta neutral...but delta neutral is not a holy grail and with calendars/diagonals there are other greeks equally important namely vega. To see more possibilities why don't you run a couple of sim trades along with the real trade then you can try out various adjustments and see for yourself how they will work out.
