Quote from Tonkadad:
Do you think it is true, what you believe is what you get out of the market/life?
Does the way we view life filter down to what we are able to create for ourselves in the market?
If so, what could you do on a daily basis to modify or alter your perception of "your" world. It seems to me that if you are not satisfied with your "results" in the market/life then doing anything but your usual knee jerk response to a given situation would be a start.
Example; I am 40 years old and could certainly benefit from a regular exercise program, which when I think about it sounds like a great idea, but for months now thats as far as I have taken it.
What effect does this lack of discipline have on my trading? What message am I reinforcing? If any?
Do you have a goal regarding trading and can you say the decisions you make through out the day are bringing you closer to your goal?
Please be forewarned the above could just be the ranting's of a pre-alzheimeric out of shape forty year old.
regards,
Bruce Hawkins
Bruce, what a great post. I certainly believe that the way I view life has a direct affect on my results. 1998-2001 had to be one of the toughest years in my life: I lost my first born son after only 1-year of life the day before my birthday, lost many great friends and traders in the Atlanta daytrading massacre in July 1999, and have had many great disappointments on a business level until March of 2003. Despite all of that tragedy I was able to keep a neutral to positive perspective and results in my trading, only after reevaluating everything in my life. Those were some tough times in my life, and I learned very valuable lessons from them all. The saying âwhat doesnât kill you makes you strongerâ only holds true when we allow them to make us stronger.
During that period I traded two accounts, one for the firm(s) I worked for and my own. Initially, I had a very tough time keeping my cool. One day, I had a fantastic revelation, TRADING WAS THE ONLY AREA OF MY LIFE THAT I COULD CONTROL. I could not control all of the unrelated tragedies, but with perseverance and fortitude I could control the results of my trading. Wouldnât it be great to have predetermined entries, stops and targets in every other aspect of life? How great would it be to have our bodies kick in with some physiological mechanism that stops our intake of weight gaining substances when our weight has hit a certain level? How great would it be to have your body get on a treadmill to get the cardio going? I envy the 60+ year olds that I see driving a golf ball for 250 yards straight down the fairway, or my friendâs 95 y/o grandmother who used to get up every Sunday morning at 5am, picks figs from her tree in Brooklyn, make sauce, brasciole, sausage and meatballs, and make fresh wine in her kitchen before 1pm (until she passed away of natural causes).
On the other side of the spectrum, there are 30-50 y/o like many of us who make excuses. Bruce, the question is not âcan we changeâ the real question is âdo we want to changeâ?
There are many areas of my life that I could improve, and surely the effect would improve my trading. I believe we all fit into that category.
Our beliefs dictate our results. I have disassociated myself with everyone who had negative belief systems. Once I did that my life changed.
âExample; I am 40 years old and could certainly benefit from a regular exercise program, which when I think about it sounds like a great idea, but for months now thatâs as far as I have taken it.
What effect does this lack of discipline have on my trading? What message am I reinforcing? If any?â
Youâre answer is in your post. If youâre unhappy with your physical state then it will surely have an effect on your trading. Try this:
If you have a treadmill, and trade from home, go out and buy a cordless keyboard and mouse. Find a way to get the keyboard and mouse in front of the treadmill panel, and start using it while you trade. Setup some sort of punishment / reward that relates to the treadmill and your trading. BTW I just threw away a pack of Marlboro Lights, your post has inspired me to try and quit smoking. GO KICK ASS!!!