Quote from *ds-ds*:
I agree with you absolutely. For me, I found that one of the big barriers to profitability is "managing yourself". Whilst you cannot control what the market is doing, in order to be sucessful, one must be able to control one's own reactions to the market's behaviour.
In order to master awareness, I recommend the audio version of
The 4 Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.
1) Be impeccable with your word
2) Don't take anything personally
3) Don't make assumptions
4) Always do your best << most important. No risk, no reward.
Although you may certainly gain great ideas from other traders, only your own common sense will guide you to successful trading. Once you accept yourself, then you love yourself and give yourself everything you need. (Pay yourself first)
In fact, I would get the audio versions of the other 2 books, the
Voice of Knowledge and the
Mastery of Love. The 5th agreement there is no audio version yet.
With all this said, one thing I learned was to expiate or move to a location that was cheaper or was a better fit for my independent philosophy. Thailand, Singapore, Columbia come to mind, and I'm sure there are many other countries. You can live in a furnished studio with electric, air condition, and high speed internet for $100-150/mo. food for $40-100 a month. Plenty of fresh foods and you can still get many of your Western fixes as needed. And plus, as you move to new locations, you meet fresh minds from both locals and other foreigners to give you fresh ideas (either electronic trading or some other type of portable / profitable business). this will only further increase your awareness.
So in this way, you give your self time to practice your trading methodologies, still have a personal live without having to wonder if you must pay the rent next month vs trading.