I appreciate your attempt to be even-handed, but that is the kind of attitude that got us in the mess we're in. People wanted to be seen as compassionate and nice and respectful and made a fetish of obeying the law and court orders, accepting election results even when they were clearly fraudulent, eg Al Franken, etc etc. .
We are no longer in a world where that will work. In fact, it is the kind of approach that loses countries. Mitt Romney is moralizing about racists, but decent people are now afraid to even utter an opinion for fear of being beaten, fired or blacklisted. That, of course, is exactly the objective of the left. They will not stop with tearing down a few statues, I can promise you that.
I agree with you that it seems like the entire country has gone mad. I fear for how this plays out.