sorry I brought you down, I just try to be brutally honest. Most with a laissez faire attitude just don't make it in most financial firms. There were 250'000 students who applied for Goldman internships just recently. The street is littered with resumes of applicants wanting entry level as well as experienced positions. If you want the softy, touchy, nice, polite attitude then go and apply for a job at the next door furniture store or auto salon.
http://uk.businessinsider.com/goldman-sachs-careers-total-job-applications-for-2016-2016-6
http://uk.businessinsider.com/goldman-sachs-careers-total-job-applications-for-2016-2016-6
This conduit guy seems like a bit of a debby downer.
Anyway...from someone that actually works in finance and i still learning to code...
If you have a lot of time on your hands now (you mentioned 6+) then perhaps learn C##, it is one of the more difficult languages to learn but will give you a stronger base. That said, this is usually learnt by real programmers rather than used in finance so I only suggest that if you have a lot of free time to do this and you want to stand out. For strictly finance purposes python will be your best bet (what I am learning) as it's the most useful and has the most resources for finance. It can also be linked to R nicely which is great for analysing large data sets.

