Quote from alfonso:
And Bundlemaker, regarding what you said on another thread, it does seem to me that you'd apparently have us resign ourselves to the fate that we are going to get screwed over by our brokers every now and then so rather than 'complaining' and 'whining' (read: trying to resolve the situation) we just just 'accept responsibility' (whatever that's supposed to mean in this context) and everything will be fine, right?
In a word, yes.
I came to this conclusion after years of my own complaining, whining, bitching, etc etc caused me to have severe health problems (I mean life threatening). You wouldn't believe the temper I got. How bent out of shape I got. How frustrated I got. And of course, nothing ever worked out fairly; at least in my estimation.
The truly miraculous thing is: when I stopped worrying about this kind of stuff, it ceased happening. Yes, I'm speaking of very spiritual stuff here. 99% of you will think I'm a nut, that's ok, I am.
Until you can let go of what you can't control, you'll never be free. Complaining about what the specialists do, or the options exchanges, or the SEC, or IB, or whoever; is nothing but an indication of a need for control. Feed that need from sources inside yourself, and your life will become a masterpiece.
