to respond to hobby...
Looking at vein in my bicep that only I can see after a workout is like an old friend who reminds me of good times.
Its funny how much I want that old friend to come back and be visible all the time.
In certain clothes I am now looking athletic... at times. ( I still have a dad bod with my shirt off, but its going away methodically.)
my brain has converted from thinking about - will that food me fat... to nutrition. Will that help me gain muscle. Will that make help me live better. I still have a cookie or something every day but I no longer even want ice cream. (at least lately)
I suggest a person in my situation break the status quo with a big effort. A fast or atkins or a long race or hike or something. (So you can bust out of your plateau to the downside.)
Then... eat protein and veggies and less processed foods and hit gym (weights) hard for a month. Then you will see change and really want to see the gains continue.
I think its a bunch of little things which are happening automatically because I am training pretty hard.
Exactly! Don't knock fasting till you try it. You will feel improved energy and you will be much sharper after getting used to it. When I first started doing this, I felt the fog lift. It's the only way I can explain it.