In the market wizards book, Ed Seykota mentioned "everyone gets what they want from the market". All market participants that I know enter the market to win and not lose. Yet, most of them lose. I'm sure I missed something that Mr Seykota can see.
Can elite traders who can see deeper share your wisdom?
This is one of my favourite comments in markets and it is incredibly profound.
My own interpretation is that he is talking about needs at a deep psychological level and the meeting of these needs.
Abraham Maslow talks about every human having these unconscious needs. These ascend from deficiency needs, (needs we may be lacking) such as psychological needs and physical needs like food, shelter, security. Once these needs are met we can move on to higher needs such as love, affection, companionship, friendship, and then the highest deficiency need esteem that includes respect, approval, recognition.
Very few people however are able to achieve the highest need where you can reach attainment of your full potential - Your Actual Authentic Self. (Self Actualisation). By The way great traders exist at this place.
At the core of everything we do and achieve are the meeting of needs.
Our basic needs are mostly met by Society. Thus we move to the senior ‘deficiency need’. - Esteem, respect, approval of others, particularly of those we look up to and respect. There are lots of sub-components of this. One of which is the need to be right, correct , proved, justified. We have spent our whole lives seeking this from our environment, getting energy and inspiration from this, but subconsciously it is pulling the strings. When it happens we get a surge of feeling of goodness, of power, of self-approval (smugness). But when we are wrong we feel shame, embarrassment, humiliation, perhaps disgust, we’ve failed, we were wrong. By the way this need can force us to take profits too quickly.
In trading and investment, everyday we are judging ourself as Right/Wrong against price action and our own actions. I should have been long/short, I should have stayed with it/got out, I should added more, cut/early, rebought/resold, should have known, should have been more aware. - The market is a tough unforgiving teacher.
Our desire to ‘not to be wrong’ is powerful and plays into our fears. - Fear of bring wrong/regret/missing out/rejection etc. Fear has a purpose. It’s there to keep us from harm, hurt, pain. So we fight the things that cause us fear, ‘being wrong’. In order to ‘not be wrong’ we make excuses, blame others, project on to others, do not accept responsibility. By not being wrong, we continue being ‘right’ in our minds, and thus your needs will be met, you will get your validation from the market.
So your conscious need, to make money profit is not being met, but your real unconscious needs are. - Hence the quote. Win or lose, everybody gets what they want from the market.