I learned that it's OK & in fact 'better' to be a small-time loser rather than a small-time winner. It also helped to draw some parallels between trading & running a regular business (which I was more accustomed to), I don't need to see green every day basically, I am more acceptive of consecutive losses, tax avoidance is still good which in actual fact has developed into legal tax evasion.
What I also learned is that I have become some sort of Net junkie, though a lot of participation was very educational for me I find myself posting way too much & getting into online 'cock fights' with people I don't even know or care about, so my New Year's resolution is to post a maximum of 1 post a day on ET.
Happy New Year to all!