I've been a consultant and coach for over 40 years. First in banking, then in real estate, and then for about 15 years for senior executives - helping clients energize their relationships, their careers, and their businesses.
I retired a few years ago. When retirement got boring enough, I took up day trading Nasdaq stocks on a whim. Before I started trading with cash, I studied and practiced with the best and then paper traded to feel confident with the software.
I read most of the day trading and technical analysis books (and still do), attended all the latest courses (and do not), and subscribed to the best Internet trading services (again, over). Like my other career development activities over the years, I did the research, found the best teachers and coaches to learn to be really good at what I was going to do in my new career as a day trader. I was confident my investment of my time and resources would pay off.
I started day trading with cash. At first I had both high confidence and incredible wins. Then my share of ups and downs, and then just about breaking even. Then I somehow traded many losses, sometime great losses. I traded as a loser like this for quite a while, always trying to figure out what was at the source of my losing, always searching for a way to win. I tried everything I learned from the experts to get back to winning. Day trading turned out to be a very expensive, stressful hobby and then a painful losing career.
I stopped trading.
I decided to take care of myself like I helped others for years (senior executives) - emotionally and financially. I still watched the stock markets and stock prices for weeks. Not trading and not losing, I began to more objectively see what was really going on that caused me to lose so much and what I thought it would take to win. I discovered how my game, the one I invested a chunk of my life and resources in, was not working, and, get this, would never work. Simply put - it's the game the crowd plays, the game all the losers play.
Everything about trading began to change. My perspective changed, my purpose for trading changed, and I began to see how my losing game for day trading must completely change to be a winner. My plan and most of the rules for trading changed dramatically - completely. My expectations for every aspect of trading changed as well.
I cancelled meaningless services and began to see that most of what I paid attention to was just noise - media, experts, forecasters, services that provide endless picks of the day that rarely if ever pan out. My trading game, the game I learned and read about - and lost a bundle playing - was for losers and now I clearly knew why.
I set out to invent a day trading game that worked, no matter what the big money had to offer. Soon after, I did just that. I call it Day Traders Win.
For the past few years I have consulted and coached want-to-be winner day traders. Clients now know what I learned about day trading, the day trading game, how to consistently win.
So there's a new day trading game in town. A game that, once mastered with your coach, allows losers to learn to consistently win.
Learning to win is simple in context, yet difficult in practice - as it requires displacing old thinking with the thinking of a winner.
Displacing the loser's trading game with a winner's game.
Displacing the unlimited old-school rules and execution sills losers rely on with a few powerful and focused rules used intuitively and competently execute trades like a winner.
Old losing habits get displaced with new winning habits.
Personally and professionally, learning to become a winner requires: integrity, patience, financial independence, vision, courage, and practice (seemingly unending practice) - trading with your coach while learning to win - in a day trading room winners use.
So, how long did it take to learn to win. Well let me put it this way. It took several years of losing to open the door to the possibility to be a consistent winner. The gap between the two - a matter of months.
Still learning, still innovating, still practicing - it's an unending game, one that, once you become a winner, can give you a sense of purpose, excitement, fulfillment - and a wonderful sense of feeling alive.
Just another trader's story.
Good luck
About winning:
What does it take to be a champion? Desire, dedication, determination, patience and the will to win.â Patty Berg
âThey laugh that win.â
William Shakespeare