Quote from tireg:
4. Recognizing the importance of psychology in trading. Elder, Douglas, Steenbarger, Kiev, and Van Tharp are also great resources. Sometimes I wonder though if I had never learned about it if things would be different because now I am constantly self-conscious of my own emotions as I trade.
6. Defining an edge. I felt like I was missing something very important in my studies, similar to what I felt when I started inquiring about position sizing. You can not find something if you don't know what exactly it is you're looking for.
7. Various small mini-breakthroughs such as learning about the concepts of ATR, velocity, trend persistence and ADX, and pairs trading.
*: It's kind of funny how you can read about something or see something the first time but pay no attention to it, but when you're actually looking for it or open to the idea then that is when you actually _learn_. Mark Douglas talked about this in Trading in the Zone; how when we didn't know about TA charts looked alien and almost random, but now we see much more to them. I find myself constantly going back to books and resources that I've gone over because I had previously glossed over the material. It now has more of an impact.
Nice post.
For beginning traders, fear is the hardest thing to break thru. You need to give your trade a reason for entry, have patience, and stick to your stops. I read a post on here where someone said, "If you ran a hedgefund, and you just lost 1million of your clients money, and the client asked you why you lost so much, how would you answer that question?"
"why didn't you cut the trade?"
"Do you have an answer?"
My worst trades are the ones that I enter without a plan, and the best trades always have a plan with a stop and target. Learn to stop giving reasons for a trade to- "come back your way, so you can just exit at break even", and learn to cut the F**KING trade right that moment.
Give yourself rules:
I learned rules from getting my butt kicked in the markets, which are:
1.Never add to losers
2.Set stops
3.scale out/ put in a trailing stop so a winner doesn't become a loser
4.have patience, and wait for the setup and target.
5.don't chase the trade, (wait for the pullback, there will always be a pullback.)
You may have all read this a million times and think, yadayadayada, but I think in order to understand what it means, you have to learn it for yourself. And that means you will probably end up losing money. How much depends on how stubborn you are, and how quickly you learn how to manage the trade. I read the rules and I don't feel anything, like the rules mean nothing, but when you are looking at a screen with red letters that say you have just lost a couple grand, then you go back to ask why, then you will say, I should have followed my rules. That's why trading with pre-defined stops is one of the most important rules,(it cuts out making the mistake of letting your brain reason you into staying with the trade. Your subconscious is telling you you will be a loser if you sell for a loss. Well, I'd rather lose $100 over $1000.
Overall, trade with a plan and know how to manage the trade.