Quote from MarketMasher:
Does it really matter what someone believes (other than to him/herself, of course)?
Yes. It can and does matter often.
If one person is able to make a decision as to what they believe, based upon what someone else says their beliefs are, or DOES according to them, then what one person believes can matter to another.
Example: A man believes there is nothing wrong with pissing in a stream simply because he hasn't taken the time to consider whether or not someone else may be downstream drinking from itâs now polluted waters.
Then one day a young woman comes walking upstream, and asks the man, âHave you been pissing in this stream?â
The man says, âYes I have. Why do you ask?â
The woman replies, âBecause I believe it is causing me and others to become sick.â
The man then apologizes, being the decent soul that he is, and from that day forward believes it is wrong to piss in the stream.
Lesson: It was the woman's belief that piss was making her and others sick. Because she shared this belief with the man, he in turn changed his own beliefs.
The problem arises when someone is unwilling to change their false beliefs.
I believe that one's beliefs only matter to oneself.
Your statement can be improved by removing the five words âI believe, only to oneselfâ
You might try it this way:
Oneâs beliefs matter.
Adding the other five words is pointless, if indeed you believe them to be true.
What you hear as stated beliefs are actually OPINIONS.
While this may true, at least SOME opinions matter and can serve a purpose.
People do not ignore their beliefs - but often their behavior is in contradiction to those stated beliefs. To say otherwise is to believe people cannot be self-delusional.
To say âpeople do not ignore there beliefsâ, is to say that people are INCAPABLE of ignoring some basic beliefs.
People ignore their beliefs all the time. One only needs temptation, greed, lust, jealousy, anger or any of the other sins to cause a temporary blindness to oneâs faith or belief.
For instance: I may believe that smoking cigarettes will lead to me having lung cancer.
I do not want lung cancer, but my craving for a cigarette is such that I will ignore what I believe will happen and smoke one regardless.
Another example: I may believe that committing adultery will be to my familyâs detriment.
I believe it will bring an end to my marriage and I will lose custody of my children.
I do not want to lose my wife or children, because I love them dearly.
Then lust comes along and over-rides my human condition, and I choose to ignore what I believe will happen, and proceed to sin regardless of my beliefs.
Many of the worldâs greatest men have been toppled in such an instantaneous moment of weakness.
Some may choose to ignore what they believe deep down, only to repent later. While others may unknowingly ignore what they believe simply due to a physical habit.
For instance: An obese woman believes that if she keeps over-eating, she may die from her condition.
She does not want to die, and decides to limit the size of her morning snack to one half of a bag of Doritos.
As a habit, she likes to watch the Maury Povich show while snacking from the bag of Doritos.
She becomes deeply enthralled by the people on the show, who are sharing there real life stories.
Only when the program goes to commercial, does she become aware that she has finished the entire contents of the bag.
Just because someone says or does something of contradiction- it doesn't mean they must believe it was right or wrong to do so- it just means they made a statement or an action despite what their beliefs may be.
"Donât say things. What you are stands over you the while, and thunders so that I cannot hear what you say to the contrary. A lady of my acquaintance said, âI donât care so much for what they say as I do for what makes them say it.â - R. W. Emerson
Thank you for sharing the thoughts of, IMO, one of our great philosophers. I think I will think over some more, what Waldo is thinking here. J