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Got the cars covered - I'm fairly cheap and my high schooler has a 2002 Nissan Xterra - seems perfectly fine for a 17yo.

My daughter is in Boston studying data science and we're paying 80.000/year, the idea is that both kids get 300.000 for college, my daughter burned through her first 100.000 after the first year and summer classes.

At least she's studying a practical major. Met one of my neighbors last night whose daughter is majoring in social work and Islamic studies. I was thinking, why the hell would any parent allow their kids to spend money on not just one worthless degrees, but two. And regardless of much of that will be her own funding, I know she'll be voting for student loan forgiveness (wealth transfer from the productive to the unproductive).
 
I usually do best when I follow (and trust) "the process" and don't questions things too much - I'm hoping this journal will help me with this.

Best wishes to you. Sounds like you just need a slight mindset shift. Your title for this thread is an example of a component of your mindset that needs to change.
 
Geezus, this journal is only up for a few hours without any verified trades to speak of, and yet all these market wizards (with advanced psychology and finance degrees) are going overboard, wanting in on the action. My gawd!
 
Nice reversal of fortunes.

Did you have a max loss limit today, how much would have lots if all day trades had gone against you by full amount..

None of the trades are really day trades - swing trades at best.The average holding time for the pair trades is 6 days, the median is 3. The only stop I have is a time based stop - if pairs are not profitable after 30 days they are closed.

The wheel strategy usually holds for ~ 30 days and doesn't have a stop either - the risk is typically determined at entry via position size. If it goes against me it adjusts the option delta (which often locks in losses).
 
It sounds like you don't have the right mind set for trading. You might do a lot better investing instead. Also, why aren't you using stop losses? It only cost a few bucks to exit a trade and then get backin at a more favorable time. Best of luck...
agree!
 
Hey guys - this looks like the perfect day to start my journal. If I look at my raw numbers I'm down -7083 so far today and -83132 for the year - the day is not over yet.

Let me quickly introduce myself. My name is Matthias - I am a 48 yo software dev manager born in Germany living in Colorado, married, 2 kids.

I've been trading 20+ years (you couldn't tell based on my P&L this year) and caught the trading bug when I was new to the country, lived in Chicago and was working for an options company on Lasalle.

I struggle somewhat with addiction/all or nothing mindset and typically try to channel a lot through fitness (I love to race bikes) - although recently I've mostly channeled them through weed - hence my hope this journal (which I hope will be a tool for accountability) will help me.

I'm about 4 ish years from retirement - at least that's the plan and hope to post twice a week on here.

As far as my trading goes - I'm trading two systems, thetagang/wheel is one of them - cointegrated pairs stock/futures trades is the second system. I reduced my account balances today to protect myself from myself - I've seen this movie before where I get too frustrated, so right now my balances are:
306.000 TD IRA
553.000 TD Portfolio Margin Account (I'm using 400.000 in margin)
280.000 IB Portfolio Margin Account (I'm using 170.000 in margin)
75.000 Tastyworks Futures Account (I'm using 12.000 in margin)

My overall net worth (not liquid but everything) is ~ 4M with quite some fluctuations and I'm looking at spending at least 500.000 on colleges the next four years.

I usually do best when I follow (and trust) "the process" and don't questions things too much - I'm hoping this journal will help me with this.
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Your starting is very bad.

All the best / worst to you mister.
 
I usually do best when I follow (and trust) "the process" and don't questions things too much - I'm hoping this journal will help me with this.

Is your "process" tested to be absolutely reliable and profitable? If yes, just trade "the process". It's not that difficult. Unless you don't trust "the process". Then that's a different story. Sounds to me you don't trust "the process" so you feel there is always a need for you to interfere and deviate from "the process" and put in your own discretionary trades.
 
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MattK, don't listen to all of these negative people. They are just jealous that you have an excellent career, a plan for your family and a high net worth.

As an computer programmer, I disagree completely that software people cannot trade. Also don't listen to people who say selling premium is a bad strategy... you just need to tweak the wheel strategy a bit to tamper down the convexity and add hedges during major downturns (see below my much smaller account in blue where hedging on top of wheeling beats benchmarks).

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In fact, I think software engineers/data scientists make for the best traders. You can write many live trading algorithms and/or tens of thousands of backtests and beat screen traders trading over simple moving averages any day with 0 rigorous statistical validation. You can automate your system and still work your day job (or just do NYTimes crossword puzzle) whilst the haters sweat bullets watchin' ticks and glued to their screen.

The only unsolicited advice I'll say is to understand how the wheel strategy is designed for, a bullish or flat market. In a bear market, you are simply collecting some time-premium as your portfolio delta turns into essentially a buy-and-hold equity strategy. Find a strategy that keeps somewhat delta neutral whilst harvesting theta.
 
If your daughter is clever why would she not study on her own and learn the tools of the trade without formal education. Win a few data science competitions and you got the foot in the door of any hedge fund and ibank even without college degree. College nowadays is only for average folks.

Got the cars covered - I'm fairly cheap and my high schooler has a 2002 Nissan Xterra - seems perfectly fine for a 17yo.

My daughter is in Boston studying data science and we're paying 80.000/year, the idea is that both kids get 300.000 for college, my daughter burned through her first 100.000 after the first year and summer classes.
 
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