Hello Yobo,
Thanks for your post.
There is some truth to what your saying and I am burning the candle on both ends. Being in school has really been more difficult in terms of time than I thought it would be. I expected to be able to study a lot more at my trading desk than I have been.
I already talked to bright and some others and the costs are a lot higher. Plus IB has a good short inventory and since I mostly short stocks thats very important.
My trading doesn't normally require much leverage actually and when I am leveraged up its been usually a rule violation
I also do believe I can fix my mistakes and even if I am not making any "mistakes" I think there is always room to improve. Like I said in the first post I believe in "kaizen" in everything. After 12 years of being married I think I am a better husband than I was after the first year. (I might need to confirm that first with the boss.....)
But thanks again for your thoughts and I appreciate the time you took to share them. I traded 100 share lots today with one having a 10 cent stop loss and the other about 40 cents.... so if nothing else the new strat will have a much lower volatility than my other fading market maker style
Best to you during the final trading days of the year
Respectfully,
Robert
Thanks for your post.
There is some truth to what your saying and I am burning the candle on both ends. Being in school has really been more difficult in terms of time than I thought it would be. I expected to be able to study a lot more at my trading desk than I have been.
I already talked to bright and some others and the costs are a lot higher. Plus IB has a good short inventory and since I mostly short stocks thats very important.
My trading doesn't normally require much leverage actually and when I am leveraged up its been usually a rule violation
I also do believe I can fix my mistakes and even if I am not making any "mistakes" I think there is always room to improve. Like I said in the first post I believe in "kaizen" in everything. After 12 years of being married I think I am a better husband than I was after the first year. (I might need to confirm that first with the boss.....)
But thanks again for your thoughts and I appreciate the time you took to share them. I traded 100 share lots today with one having a 10 cent stop loss and the other about 40 cents.... so if nothing else the new strat will have a much lower volatility than my other fading market maker style
Best to you during the final trading days of the year
Respectfully,
Robert
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I have to agree....
Robert your losses are too big and they are wiping you out. You obviously have a large amount of capital to trade with but listen to this carefully.
You are overworking it, underperforming the markets returns, and doing your family an injustice by trading like this. I understand you have a new baby and are also going to school. That is a lot of pressure. Don't let that get control of your trading.
You obviously are smart. I just hope you are smart enough and detached enough from trading that you can either let go or treat it as a hobby.
Day trading your own money does not make sense. You will be better served by trading your money using modern portfolio theory and adding tactical approaches to timing the rebalancing of your asset classes.
If you really want to trade and think you have a system that works then stop using your money and join a prop firm that can give you enough intraday leverage to make money. Take 25k and open an account with Bright or some other prop firm. They all offer 15:1 long and short leverage.
If you can make that work than your system works. But using straight up money without leverage to underperform the market returns makes no sense. The market will eat you up.
I can already tell, you are thinking..."a day full of mistakes." I can fix those and get back to profitability."
Sounds like to me, you need a break. You are letting your self get consumed by the trading. You are taking on bigger positions as your losses continue....STOP IT!