Holy crap this thread is juvenile.
(1) Look, I'll sympathize with the whole avoidance of American or western women. I realized long ago that the constant competition in a relationship for who is the man that comes with being involved with a western woman is not something I ever wanted a part of.
(2) Fortunately I became an expat in Russia and found my soulmate over in Moscow. Though we've been back in the states for a while now, she's still the Russian woman I fell in love with.
(3) Is it work? Sure. Humans are animals at the end of the day and co-habitation with another "animal" requires effort. But she and I are good about allowing each other our own personal time but still maintaining a great family life. And she gave me my son who I adore.
(4) Love life still going strong after 14 years, won't disgust you with the details but somehow the sex keeps getting better, no idea how that happens but not going to question the miracle.
But touting the life of being 50 and hunting for pussy is rather creepy. At a certain point, you're going to be that guy Chris Rock refers to when he mentions the "old guy in the club - he's not too old, just a little too old for the club". In Moscow I saw these old lecherous guys as they scouted out 20 something Russian girls. Knew a Brit everyone called "the Moscow Wolf" who used to tag them regularly. My wife walked into the woman's room one time and he was going at it with a girl 1/3 his age in one of the stalls. Classy.
At a certain point, men have to grow up. I'm not saying they have to get married, but a certain behavior separates men from boys.
A feminized Chinese beer is telling me to man up
Let's take a good look at her.You gave it away with your last sentence = you're now a feminist, completely feminized = exactly the point of this thread
"grow up" + "man up" ..... if you say this, you're already there, a woman. And to a woman, any guy who wants to f**k around is a child, immature, a retard, needs to man up!
I'll drink to that!

Good luck
see "Man up" in video below