Quote from Gabfly1:
To accept that kind of volatility means one of two things. Either you are a man of steel, or you are trading a very, very small account. I may be wrong, and your dollar numbers are none of my business, but I think it is either the one or the other. To characteristically gain 50% one day and lose 40% the next, or thereabouts, on a meaningful amount of money is absolutely insane.
Not really, size is relative, you are thinking in absolute terms, a good trader needs to think in systemic terms. So losing a dollar when you have 10 should be no different than losing 1 million dollars when you have 10 million, or 1 billion dollars when you have 10 billion.
I do not look at my PNL until I have completed a trade. It is hard to do. But now that I know a big hitter like PTJ has the same issues, I know I can hold and manage my emotions that much better. Before that video, I would have pulled the plug well before 50%. Like I said, that video was 100% mental for me, and it was a game changer.
Before, I would look at a chart, and look and see, I am up 30%. I have no good reason to get out, other than I am up 30%. I would pull the plug, usually only to see price continue to go screaming in my direction. That is frustrating, to say the least. Now, it is all better!
