if you are still trying to figure out what to get your wife/girlfriend for Vday and don't want the normal--check this store out www.agentprovocateur.com its most definitively good stuff.
If it fulfills its purpose....it will be cast aside with nary any attention paid to it (because said attention will be diverted to what is in the lingerie)
Someone has to ponder these philosophical questions
i never understood it either. prefering totally in the buff to any frilly leathery lacy stuff. however, the ladies seem to love it way more than then men. wonder why ??